One of the most difficult problems I've had in training Barnabas over the past few months is trying to establish myself as a "leader of the pack."  After spending much of his life on his own, he had assumed the role of being the boss and taking care of himself.  Within a few days of having him, Jason had already established his role as the pack leader.  It was clear Barnabas trusted and respected him.  Me?  Not so much.