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When Good Intentions Go Awry
anger, forgiveness, bitterness Dana Rongione anger, forgiveness, bitterness Dana Rongione

When Good Intentions Go Awry

Over the weekend, Jason and I embarked on what we thought would be a simple organizing project. Our grand plan involved rearranging furniture and purchasing a new large bookcase to house many of our abundant ministry materials, currently relegated to the attic. Oh, how naive we were!

Day one started with enthusiasm, but by nightfall, I found myself utterly exhausted. My body, ever the temperamental sort, decided to remind me of its limitations. The next day was spent in recovery mode, my joints protesting every movement as if I'd run a marathon instead of simply shifting a few items about.

To add insult to injury, the ordered bookcase failed to arrive on schedule. As I write this, our house resembles a labyrinth of totes and stacks of materials. Every room has become a temporary storage unit, and navigating from one space to another feels like participating in an obstacle course.

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An Outbreak of Joy
Positive Life Dana Rongione Positive Life Dana Rongione

An Outbreak of Joy

A couple of weeks ago, out of the blue, Jason woke up on Monday morning covered head to toe in tiny red dots. By Friday, he resembled an itchy spotted giraffe! It turns out he had ingested something to which he had a severe allergic reaction. We still don’t know what it was, so hopefully, he won’t eat or drink it again!

Like most men, Jason doesn’t do well at being sick; thankfully, he’s not often ill. I felt so bad for him, stuck in bed, itchy and miserable. But despite his suffering, he mostly maintained an upbeat attitude.

It could have been different. Frustrated and kept from his work and ministry, Jason might have medicated stress with complaints, anxiety, and self-pity. If he’d chosen to stew in negativity, his cynicism could have also infected me, and I was having a hard enough time keeping it together.

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The Creeping Danger of Unresolved Conflicts
Anger, Forgiveness, Bitterness, Resentment, Relationships Dana Rongione Anger, Forgiveness, Bitterness, Resentment, Relationships Dana Rongione

The Creeping Danger of Unresolved Conflicts

Can I vent for a minute, friends? I need to get this off my chest. Let me tell you about the computer problems I recently dealt with.

It all started after a routine software update. Suddenly, my computer refused to go to sleep. I checked all the settings and even tried to force it to sleep, but ultimately, it just wouldn't do it. And while it was annoying, it wasn't a big deal. But then, odd issues with my trackpad surfaced. The scroll wheel would spin, but the pages wouldn't move up or down until they finally jumped halfway down the page. At that point, things were becoming more frustrating.

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