How Real Life Differs From Fairy Tales
Growing up, I loved fairy tales. The dashing prince. The beautiful princess. The epic quest. The happily ever after. Even now, I find myself drawn to stories with similar themes, though I've long since learned that real life rarely follows the fairy tale format. And you know what? That's a good thing!
Our Story Isn't About Us
Unlike fairy tale heroes who take center stage in their stories, we're called to play supporting roles in a much grander narrative. Think about it. In fairy tales, everything revolves around the protagonist. Their wishes. Their dreams. Their journey. But in real life, we're part of God's story, and He's the true protagonist. Our purpose isn't to achieve our own "happily ever after" but to glorify the King of kings.
"And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him." (Colossians 3:17)
The Ending Isn't a Mystery
Another beautiful difference is that we already know our story's ending! While fairy tale characters face uncertainty until the final page, believers have the blessed assurance of eternal life. No wondering if we'll defeat the dragon or if true love will prevail. We have something far better: the promise of forever with our Saviour.
"And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God." (Revelation 21:3)
God Is the Author
Perhaps the most significant difference is the Author of our story. Fairy tales often credit fate, destiny, or magical forces for the hero's success. But our lives are carefully crafted by the Master Storyteller. He's not some impersonal force or mystical power. He's our loving Father who has planned every detail of our lives with purpose.
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." (Jeremiah 29:11)
Living in Wales, I've visited many castles and walked through enchanting forests that could be straight out of a storybook. But I've learned that real life—with its mixture of joy and sorrow, triumph and trial—is far more meaningful than any fairy tale. We serve a King more incredible than any storybook prince, and our "happily ever after" isn't limited to this earthly realm but extends into eternity.
So, while I still enjoy a good fairy tale, I'm thankful that God is writing my story. His plot twists may surprise me, but I know the Author can be trusted. And that, dear friends, is better than any fairy tale.